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    Posted: 30 Dec 2022 at 22:02
Coleman gets 4 week's for his 3rd red card in 3 consecutive matches against Sarries, all for high shots, and Marler get 6 for sledging. The game has lost sight of what is important

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Originally posted by backrowb backrowb wrote:

Coleman gets 4 week's for his 3rd red card in 3 consecutive matches, all for high shots, and Marler get 6 for sledging. The game has lost sight of what is important

Four weeks of Marler’s six are suspended and , if the stories are right, it went well beyond “sledging”.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote CJB1 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 31 Dec 2022 at 08:48
Marler has form for this kind of thing.  Perhaps he was lucky to be treated this leniently.
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Originally posted by CJB1 CJB1 wrote:

Marler has form for this kind of thing.  Perhaps he was lucky to be treated this leniently.
I'd far rather someone tried hurting my feeling than my brain 


Edited by backrowb - 31 Dec 2022 at 08:53
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Originally posted by backrowb backrowb wrote:

Originally posted by CJB1 CJB1 wrote:

Marler has form for this kind of thing.  Perhaps he was lucky to be treated this leniently.
I'd far rather someone tried hurting my feeling than my brain 

Agreed brb,
Physical abuse must be treated more seriously than some verbals.


Edited by Sid James - 31 Dec 2022 at 17:19
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Surely if it was a homaphobic comment it can't be swept under the carpet, otherwise where will lead it to imo. 

Edited by kingsheathlad - 01 Jan 2023 at 10:18
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Halliford Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 Jan 2023 at 10:03
How does the old proverb go? “Sticks and stones May break my bones but words will never hurt me.” Sadly less true these days.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Sid James Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 Jan 2023 at 10:18
Originally posted by Halliford Halliford wrote:

How does the old proverb go? “Sticks and stones May break my bones but words will never hurt me.” Sadly less true these days.

Exactly my point.
If Hennan had had the self discipline to front up to Marler rather than attack him, he would have made Marler look like the embarrassing idiot he is.
I note Marler was wearing 'tights' during the match. Was this in preparation for a future career with other 'C' list nobodies in pantomime as the villain?
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Originally posted by kingsheathlad kingsheathlad wrote:

Surely if it was a homaphobic comment it can't be swept under the carpet, otherwise where will lead it to imo. 

As far as I can see absolutely no one anywhere has suggested it was a homophobic comment. 
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The 'what was said?' uncertainty cleared up by Telegraph today...

Audio from the incident in Tuesday's match between Harlequins and Bristol has been released on social media following Marler's ban by the Rugby Football Union. 

In the exchange prior to a scrum before the end of the first half, Marler can be heard saying to Heenan: "I'm clearly not your brother, am I? There's no way I'm from the same mother as you. Your mum's a f***** wh***."

Marler's initial comment is met with no reaction from Heenan, before the prop repeats: "Your mum's a wh***".

Following the second remark a scrap broke out between the two packs of forwards. Heenan was penalised as a result of the fight by referee Karl Dickson, who did not hear Marler's comments but insisted to Heenan and the Bristol captain, Steven Luatua, that Marler would be punished retrospectively if the comment was picked up over the various broadcast microphones.

Heenan could then be heard over Dickson's microphone saying: "Karl, my mum's in hospital with cancer".



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Originally posted by WEvans WEvans wrote:

Originally posted by kingsheathlad kingsheathlad wrote:

Surely if it was a homaphobic comment it can't be swept under the carpet, otherwise where will lead it to imo. 

As far as I can see absolutely no one anywhere has suggested it was a homophobic comment. 

Apologies for my inference above. 
Now that what he said is out in the public domain, a shocking thing to have said. 
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Originally posted by kingsheathlad kingsheathlad wrote:

Originally posted by WEvans WEvans wrote:

Originally posted by kingsheathlad kingsheathlad wrote:

Surely if it was a homaphobic comment it can't be swept under the carpet, otherwise where will lead it to imo. 

As far as I can see absolutely no one anywhere has suggested it was a homophobic comment. 

Apologies for my inference above. 
Now that what he said is out in the public domain, a shocking thing to have said. 

It is indeed shocking but I would suspect not uncommon. It is reported that prior to this Heenan referred to Marler as being mad which some might think equally shocking given Marler's publicly admitted mental health issues.

What will be interesting is whether we see a raft of suspensions for similar incidents as I suspect it will be far to much to hope that those behaving like children actually grow up.
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It is sad when things like this are said in any sport, as banter or to wind up opponents. 
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I cannot believe Marler got away with just 2 weeks ban.

Must be down to his past squeaky clean character
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Marler needs professional help.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote WEvans Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 04 Jan 2023 at 13:03
Marler has gone public with his mental health issues and has received help. Possibly time to cut him a little slack. He did something stupid and has been punished but he is far from the only one in the game (or more noticeably amongst those commenting on his recent behaviour) who it could be argued would also benefit from professional help.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Steve@Mose Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 04 Jan 2023 at 13:44
Originally posted by WEvans WEvans wrote:

Originally posted by kingsheathlad kingsheathlad wrote:

Originally posted by WEvans WEvans wrote:

Originally posted by kingsheathlad kingsheathlad wrote:

Surely if it was a homaphobic comment it can't be swept under the carpet, otherwise where will lead it to imo. 

As far as I can see absolutely no one anywhere has suggested it was a homophobic comment. 

Apologies for my inference above. 
Now that what he said is out in the public domain, a shocking thing to have said. 

It is indeed shocking but I would suspect not uncommon. It is reported that prior to this Heenan referred to Marler as being mad which some might think equally shocking given Marler's publicly admitted mental health issues.

What will be interesting is whether we see a raft of suspensions for similar incidents as I suspect it will be far to much to hope that those behaving like children actually grow up.

Is there any report/evidence about Heenan making this comment?  Marler made no reference to any such comments in his submission to the RFU.  
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote SK 88 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 04 Jan 2023 at 22:22
Heenan said "you're better than that brother", in reference to Marler kicking him in the previous ruck.

RE:Coleman earlier in the thread one of those red cards was rescinded on appeal, so it is actually 2 red cards in 2 seasons.   Not a great record by any stretch but not as bad as portrayed. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote WEvans Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 05 Jan 2023 at 13:20
Originally posted by Steve@Mose Steve@Mose wrote:

Originally posted by WEvans WEvans wrote:

Originally posted by kingsheathlad kingsheathlad wrote:

Originally posted by WEvans WEvans wrote:

Originally posted by kingsheathlad kingsheathlad wrote:

Surely if it was a homaphobic comment it can't be swept under the carpet, otherwise where will lead it to imo. 

As far as I can see absolutely no one anywhere has suggested it was a homophobic comment. 

Apologies for my inference above. 
Now that what he said is out in the public domain, a shocking thing to have said. 

It is indeed shocking but I would suspect not uncommon. It is reported that prior to this Heenan referred to Marler as being mad which some might think equally shocking given Marler's publicly admitted mental health issues.

What will be interesting is whether we see a raft of suspensions for similar incidents as I suspect it will be far to much to hope that those behaving like children actually grow up.

Is there any report/evidence about Heenan making this comment?  Marler made no reference to any such comments in his submission to the RFU.  

The transcript I read (and I couldn't find it when I originally posted) referred to Heenan saying you must be mad to Marler. Of course this is commonly said when someone does something daft and usually said without much thought and not because it is thought the person is genuinely mad. 

My point was that with Marler's well publicised mental health issues Heenan's comment could well have been misinterpreted. The fact Marler apologised after the game and then admitted his guilt at the hearing and didn't seek to use Heenan's comment as mitigation is at least to his credit even if he was a pi11ock for saying what he did in the first place.


Edited by WEvans - 05 Jan 2023 at 13:21
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